Quite a number of dreams appear in the Torah: Joseph’s dreams about the sun, the moon, and the eleven stars, as well as the sheaves bowing down to him; Pharaoh’s dreams about the seven cows and the seven thin ears of grain that swallow their fat counterparts; and more.
This week, at the beginning of the Torah portion, we encounter the very first dream in the Torah—Jacob’s dream: “Behold, a ladder was set on the earth and its top reached the heavens, and behold, angels of God were ascending and descending on it.”
While the dreams of Joseph and Pharaoh served to foretell the future—Joseph becoming a ruler, or the coming famine in Egypt—the ladder in Jacob’s dream did not convey prophecy but rather encouragement and support.
Jacob had set out alone to a foreign land—Haran. He had left his father and mother behind and was fleeing from the wrath of a brother who sought to kill him. In Haran awaited an uncle from whom I wouldn’t buy even a used car. The money he had was left somewhere along the way with his nephew. And so, utterly alone in the world, he walked forward on his journey.
I don’t know what went through his mind as he walked, so solitary in the world. But I am certain that when he fell asleep on that stone and dreamt of a ladder reaching from earth to heaven, with angels ascending and descending—angels sent to guard and protect him on his long, unknown path—it was a formative and meaningful moment for him.
The dream essentially told him: “Yankele, you’re not truly alone! Angels are watching over you! And not only angels—the Almighty Himself said to him, ‘Behold, I am with you, and I will guard you wherever you go.’”
With the strength this dream gave him, Jacob not only survived—he built and established a magnificent, blessed family. A family that became the nation we are today.
For this is how it works: when you walk the right path, angels accompany you and protect you. The road may not be easy, but the goal can be achieved—and achieved greatly—so long as you do not give up on the dream, do not let reality extinguish it.
Our Sages said, “The deeds of the fathers are a sign for the children.” Meaning, what happened to the Patriarchs—in this case Jacob—is a sign for what will happen to their descendants, the Children of Israel.
Jacob’s story has repeated itself time and again throughout the generations. After all, who among us does not have a grandfather or grandmother who was once alone in the world—torn from their parents and family, forced to build everything anew in a foreign land, alone, truly alone? Not all of them dreamt about ladders and angels, but they always knew there were angels accompanying them. For the mother they left behind, the Yiddishe Mamme, would cry as she lit the Shabbat candles and whisper a prayer to the Creator: “Tatte, send Your angels and protect my children.”
So if you sometimes feel a bit alone, if the hardships weigh heavily, and even if there is a “Uncle” standing in your way trying to sabotage your efforts—remember that each of you has your own ladder with angels ascending and descending, yet never leaving.
Shabbat Shalom—and don’t give up on the dream,
Rabbi Zalman Wishedski
